// tofu guide

Long distance rituals that build real momentum.

The goal is consistency, not perfection. Keep each ritual small enough to survive normal life stress.

Daily check-in

One question at the same time each day to keep emotional context fresh.

Weekly memory save

Capture one shared moment each week so your relationship has continuity.

Tiny gift loop

Leave one short note or surprise each week for asynchronous closeness.

Monthly reset

Review what is working and tune your rituals together.